I have a deep, dark confession I need to make get of my chest so let's all take a collective deep breath and then read on...
Ok, here goes-
I wear clip on earrings. (Gasp, sigh, moan, wail, go ahead and look disgusted.) Here's the thing, my Puerto Rican mother thought it would cute, when I was a wee babe, to pierce my little ears. Well, being a small, little thing and not yet able to take directives, I wiggled and squirmed and the ear piercing lady tore one of my holes. Not all the way, but enough to make things lopsided. I tried to wear earring growing up but each time I'd get an infection or they were just too uncomfortable. I tried getting them repierced by myself and by a "professional" only to be disappointed when even the lightest earrings hurt my lobes and made them all crusty
(ha! I just said "crusty). Anyway, I gave up, long ago, on wearing earrings and this made me very sad. I like my accessories damn it.
Last year I decided to try some
vintage clip ons and I read a tutuorial on how to adjust them so they fit comfortably. It was like the heaven's opened up and alas I could wear earrings! Not only could I wear earrings, I could make regular earrings into clip ons or screw backs!
I'm here to show you that clip ons can be cool so if you can't wear earrings there's hope or if you just need to take a break and don't want to stretch your ear lobes, I've got your back (and so does
Etsy).
Here's a cameo with a "french clip"...
Vintage Glass Flower Cameo Earrings $3

...and a cameo with a more discreet hook that makes it look like your ears are pierced.
Captivating Lady in Blue $9

You can even wear "pearls" and screw backs are the type of earring I prefer most and they're the easiest to adjust.
Vintage Pearl Drop Earrings $9.99

There are plenty of dangle options.
Tulip upside down earrings clip on $5.50

I love sweet, floral, "studs." No one has to know they're "non pierced."
Vintage Red Rose Earrings $10

Many Etsy jewlers are willing to make their normal earrings into clip-ons. All you have to do is ask, but if that fails, why not just make your own? You'll need a good pair of
earring pliers and some
strong glue.
Vintage Beautiful Flower Cobochons 15 $10

Just search "clip on" in the Supply section.
Clip on lever back earrings blanks $3

The important thing to remember is that
you are not alone. I'll start a 'non pierced earring wearers' club if I have too.
There, now you know my dirty little secret. I'm proudly wearing a pair of dangle earring today and I heart them.
Is anyone else out there?!{If you have questions about how to adjust these to make them comfy, just shoot me an e-mail.}