tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post1732476262079138479..comments2023-12-29T11:18:24.454-05:00Comments on Down and Out Chic: On having a miscarriageChristinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05183231711425591135noreply@blogger.comBlogger92125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-74424490752699505012012-05-12T09:36:39.554-04:002012-05-12T09:36:39.554-04:00I pray God helps you with this.
You will have you...I pray God helps you with this. <br />You will have your baby some day, Im sure.<br />JJardzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15505833843342419913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-27278777013346479162012-01-07T11:58:19.082-05:002012-01-07T11:58:19.082-05:00You two are going to be fine , life will re arrang...You two are going to be fine , life will re arrange itself again and you will know happiness like no other. Hang in there sweet pea. xox :)Jacqueline urbangipsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18321995911801934550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-78739622697314568142011-12-31T10:58:44.857-05:002011-12-31T10:58:44.857-05:00My friend read a post I just wrote on my blog, ema...My friend read a post I just wrote on my blog, emailed me, and sent me a link to your post. I completely empathize with you...I had a miscarriage at around 7 weeks, and often get a similar "why so upset?" reaction. Know you are not alone. <br />Warm regards,<br />TaraTara Holmeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06134914230548308233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-54311285455444451172011-10-31T09:09:23.758-04:002011-10-31T09:09:23.758-04:00I just wanted to say all will be okay, I have a go...I just wanted to say all will be okay, I have a good friend who went through all this too and she now has 2 beautiful boys! I can connect you two if you'd Ike to discuss doctors , procedures and how your going to feel while going through all this, I will email you later with more details of it all. It's always good to have support of other who have gone through this emotional time. I am happy that people are commenting about their experiences so you know your not alone:)<br />I am here for you Christina! You will have a baby very soon, I feel it. <br />Xx CallieCallie Graysonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15842182285936262315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-66197725028894642262011-10-23T14:55:38.996-04:002011-10-23T14:55:38.996-04:00Hi Christina,
I just discovered your lovely blog,...Hi Christina,<br /><br />I just discovered your lovely blog, and read your story. The same thing happened to me in my first pregnancy (though I had to do an abortion, because the baby didn't come out). Many people tried to make me feel better, but I remember mostly something that my doctor said - you will not be calmed until you will hold a baby in your hands. This is so true. And I have 2 healthy boys now. Please do not despair!<br /><br />All the best,<br />MayaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-74061597061404015362011-09-30T16:35:50.640-04:002011-09-30T16:35:50.640-04:00Christina,
I just posted about this too, yesterda...Christina,<br /><br />I just posted about this too, yesterday {Diana from ourcitylights}informed me you had written about yours and so I came looking. I cried when I read your story, just like I cried when I was writing mine. But I am also so proud. Because like you, I had been letting fear control my hand whenever my mouse hovered over the "Publish" button. Since posting my story I've had nothing but positive feedback and other women telling me they have been there and how it has helped them to see others talking about it. I guess that is the silver lining to all of this.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing--I'm sorry you had to go through this. If you're interested in my story its here: http://srslyliz.com/a-story-with-no-happy-ending<br /><br />Take care<3Lizhttp://www.srslyliz.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-52706629115381270842011-09-21T20:12:31.427-04:002011-09-21T20:12:31.427-04:00Oh Christina, I don't comment nearly as often ...Oh Christina, I don't comment nearly as often as I should, but I needed to reach out now to offer a virtual hug. My heart is with you, friend.Kayla Poolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17290658489564992879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-57086606957076347832011-09-20T13:10:17.537-04:002011-09-20T13:10:17.537-04:00Thank you for sharing your story. Miscarriage carr...Thank you for sharing your story. Miscarriage carries such a stigma in our society, which is unfortunate since as you say so many women (and men!) suffer this tragedy. <br /><br />It is nothing to be ashamed of, and nothing to keep secret! I didn't have the chance to announce my pregnancy before the subsequent loss (7 wks) and felt embarrassment over the enormity of my grief, as if losing a child at any stage is something that can be measured and compared. Yet I took comfort in reading about other women's experiences, and knowing that I was not alone.<br /><br />I admire your courage in sharing your story. Know that although the pain of losing a child will never completely go away, your ability to cope with the loss will steadily improve with the help of supportive family and friends.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-16799216080928060182011-09-20T07:01:45.975-04:002011-09-20T07:01:45.975-04:00i admire you a ridiculous amount. i have no idea w...i admire you a ridiculous amount. i have no idea what your going through but i wish you all the joy and love in the world. god only knows you deserve it. i hope everything goes well for you and B in the future and that you will always know that there are A LOT of people who support you through this. i may not know you but all my love to you both. <3 xxxxxelizabethrosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08342338410350554421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-12286227648362545622011-09-19T17:13:16.635-04:002011-09-19T17:13:16.635-04:00Oh gosh. I'm so so sorry that you did not have...Oh gosh. I'm so so sorry that you did not have a sympathetic doctor. Or nurse. <br /><br />I am so glad you have so many people around you to help you through though.Christinahttp://christinaheart.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-65995233928705756112011-09-19T10:46:48.960-04:002011-09-19T10:46:48.960-04:00So sorry.
Wish I lived close by to:
-Take you o...So sorry. <br /><br />Wish I lived close by to:<br /><br />-Take you out for a mocha whatacchino, and<br /><br />-Kick the doctorSamanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14452627115206030781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-15541038250349317632011-09-18T20:24:12.856-04:002011-09-18T20:24:12.856-04:00I am just getting caught up on my google reader an...I am just getting caught up on my google reader and I just saw this, and I am so sorry. I've been a reader for a while, and although I have not commented before I just wanted to let you know that you are an amazingly strong woman. Thank you for sharing your story. You are blessed to have a wonderful family that offers you support during this time.Tamarahttp://www.tstastybits.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-89369762130064988232011-09-18T15:01:33.788-04:002011-09-18T15:01:33.788-04:00I'm so sorry for your loss that was compounded...I'm so sorry for your loss that was compounded by a doctor with no compassion.april brookshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811074174762857958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-58151151290519445582011-09-18T05:39:31.902-04:002011-09-18T05:39:31.902-04:00I've never left a comment on a blog before but...I've never left a comment on a blog before but i felt compelled to write and say how sorry i am to hear about you miscarriage. I was crying reading your story and my thoughts are with you and your hubby. Thank you for being so honest and I look forward reading better news on your blog in the near future.Katherinenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-9664825853116462162011-09-16T09:01:45.194-04:002011-09-16T09:01:45.194-04:00(((Christina))) I think it was great that you shar...(((Christina))) I think it was great that you shared your story. Thank you so much!robynhttp://www.robayre.com/newsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-77789366071747843612011-09-16T01:37:37.744-04:002011-09-16T01:37:37.744-04:00so brave and so beautiful. thank you for sharing y...so brave and so beautiful. thank you for sharing your heart. it brings women together. i'm at the end of year one with no pregnancy and starting the whole fertility testing regime. the reality of babies coming into this world really is a true miracle. one i hope we'll both be blessed with. best of luck to you hun.Jonnahttp://www.inspiremethis.tumblr.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-7661239965922007662011-09-16T00:40:09.552-04:002011-09-16T00:40:09.552-04:00Thank you for sharing your story; I'm glad you...Thank you for sharing your story; I'm glad you went ahead and decided to do it. I am sorry that you and B have lost your first baby. You are so right that it is okay to allow yourself to feel and grieve. I have not lost a baby, but had the experience of losing someone unexpectedly; what despair! I like the idea that someone else had to do something special in memory of your baby. Some cemetaries even have a large wall where you can have your baby's name (even just baby Smith) engraved. I also wanted to share with you that one of my best friends had 2 miscarriages after which they found she didn't produce enough of the hormone to produce a fully mature egg or sustain a pregnancy. Not sure if that's exactly your situation, but it sounds similar. Anyway, her treatment was simply taking supplemental hormones. Now she's 29 weeks and I am throwing her a baby shower in a few weeks. I say this only to offer hope. I know that there is nothing that can take the place of your first pregnancy or remove the pain of losing your first baby. Best wishes for the coming days, weeks, and months. I'll pray that God comes near to you both.hilary b.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17716061647596563996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-54020601232905866892011-09-15T10:55:08.656-04:002011-09-15T10:55:08.656-04:00Praying for you...Praying for you...jdavissquaredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01911942484823419064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-36451809738046261182011-09-15T02:56:13.977-04:002011-09-15T02:56:13.977-04:00I think all these comments show you just how much ...I think all these comments show you just how much you are not alone. Thinking of you xBrigittaRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12432832543158028300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-91232971656029417482011-09-14T23:37:36.397-04:002011-09-14T23:37:36.397-04:00I am sorry. It is hard to eat the dish served. S...I am sorry. It is hard to eat the dish served. Sometimes it just sucks. I was served both sorrow & joy, and it went something like this: <br />Miscarriage<br />Birth (boy)<br />Miscarriage<br />Birth (girl)<br />Stillborn 22 weeks<br />Birth (girl)<br />Birth (girl)<br />Miscarriage<br /><br />Yes, today your story is heartbreak. It will not always be that way. Keep looking up. <br /><br />KimberlyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-19282600485650343002011-09-14T23:32:32.755-04:002011-09-14T23:32:32.755-04:00Christina - I don't know what to say (crying r...Christina - I don't know what to say (crying right now). But, please - just know that my heart goes out to you as I'm sure so many others do. You and B are loved and there are a lot of people thinking about you and wishing you well and praying for you right now. Hugs and more hugs.Amy - Thank You Cards Shopnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-30973992801145698352011-09-14T17:31:00.428-04:002011-09-14T17:31:00.428-04:00i cried while reading this and haven't stopped...i cried while reading this and haven't stopped thinking of you and b, christina. know that you are loved and supported.<br />xoxo<br />j.Jennifer Younghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05283808161039798078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-53788513011136998852011-09-14T14:21:53.873-04:002011-09-14T14:21:53.873-04:00:( super sad to hear about your loss, stay strong!...:( super sad to hear about your loss, stay strong!Cooking Quidnunchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05000707364954362973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-4280415673650839712011-09-14T13:00:07.886-04:002011-09-14T13:00:07.886-04:00Although I have never experienced this, I know so ...Although I have never experienced this, I know so many people who have. I am so sorry that your doctor was so horrible (the words I really want to use here I can't!!) You ARE a strong woman! Saying this is common and happens to couples frequently is not going to make you feel better, but I do know that mostly all of the people that I know who have experienced this got pregnant again soon after and delivered healthy babies, and then got pregnant again!Lesleyhttp://www.merolamoya.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4711916785635061879.post-6923856761289100312011-09-14T12:32:16.591-04:002011-09-14T12:32:16.591-04:00God bless you. for writing this, for your honesty...God bless you. for writing this, for your honesty. I'll be praying for you & B!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16957601884372364541noreply@blogger.com